A reader of YBL sent us screenshots of chats he had on Whatsapp with his ex-girlfriend, who is now married and the parent of a newborn kid.
The married ex-girlfriend still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend and is unable to move on. She said in the chats that she wed her spouse out of sympathy for her since he loved her so much.
Foolish, cheating woman… The husband thinks he has married a submissive wife, not knowing she is an undercover olosho.
On a serious note, this is the case with many Nigerian marriages. Some ladies date someone of their age for years. It doesn’t work most times, ’cause when the guy is trying to build a life, the lady is already in her late twenties.
Everyone starts asking her “when will you call us for asoebi?”. She starts putting pressure on the guy and he’ll say “I’m not holding you, if you see someone good…go, I will wish you well”. So, she starts looking for someone else, most times an older man. She sees and marries him ASAP. They are both married, but are they happy? It’s a vicious cycle. I don’t advise girls to date their mates. Most times, women marry up and men marry down. Don’t rush into marriages only to cheat on your husbands.
People saying she isn’t cheating, is it until she climbs into his bed? If you see your husband/wife, telling an ex they still love them with passion. Will you say it’s not cheating ? This is emotional cheating. If the guy presses further, it’s only a matter of time